I thought turning my granddaughter’s little drawing into a permanent reminder of her love would be one of the sweetest decisions I had ever made.
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Instead, the moment my husband saw the tattoo, his reaction was so harsh and deeply personal that I began questioning something far bigger than my decision to get inked.
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I began wondering what, exactly, was behind his anger.
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The drawing came from my six-year-old granddaughter, Natalie.
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She handed it to me one afternoon with the kind of pride only a child can have when she believes she has created something truly magnificent.
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Across the top, in large, uneven letters, she had written:
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“I LOVE YOU NANA.”
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I nearly cried the moment I saw it.
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It wasn’t elaborate.
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The letters leaned in different directions. Some of the colors had wandered far outside the lines. The little picture of the two of us had arms that were much too long for our bodies, and our heads were nearly as big as the rest of us.
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She had drawn herself standing beside me, both of us smiling beneath a huge yellow sun.
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To anyone else, it probably looked like an ordinary child’s drawing.
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