For the past ten years, Helen had treated me as though I were a temporary inconvenience her son had somehow mistaken for a wife.
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She had never made much effort to hide her disapproval.
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When Ethan and I lived in our first apartment, she called it “cozy” in the same tone someone might use to describe a hospital gown.
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At Thanksgiving, she once questioned whether my mashed potatoes were supposed to have so much texture.
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And when we finally purchased our house, she walked through every room, inspecting everything before repeatedly declaring, “It has potential.”
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She said it seven times.
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But perhaps her cruelest remark had been calling me the “starter wife.”
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She had said it only once.
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That was more than enough.
It was also the reason I hadn’t invited her to our anniversary celebration.
Yet the woman standing in our doorway looked nothing like the smug, judgmental Helen I knew.
Her makeup was streaked beneath her eyes. Her coat was buttoned incorrectly, and her hands were shaking so badly that the phone she held kept tapping against her wedding ring.
I immediately crossed the room.
“Where is Ethan?”
Helen opened her mouth, but no words came out.
“Helen, where is my husband?”
“He’s safe,” she finally managed.
Those two words were the first thing I could hold on to.
Helen stepped inside and quietly closed the door behind her.
“Then why isn’t he here?” I demanded.
She looked at me, then at the decorations and the cake.
“I think you need to see this.”
She extended the phone toward me.
“What happened?” I asked.
“He found something.”
“What did he find?”
Helen looked around the room once more before answering.
“A promise.”
I took the phone from her.
